Self-Care Sunday Routine: Weekly Reset for Moms
Self-Care Sunday Routine: Weekly Reset for Moms
Sunday has a reputation: the day before Monday, full of dread and laundry and meal prep and bracing for the week ahead. But what if Sunday could be something different? What if it could be the day you actually take care of yourself—even just a little?
Enter the Self-Care Sunday: a weekly reset ritual that combines practical preparation with genuine renewal. It’s not about bubble baths and ignoring your responsibilities (though that sounds nice). It’s about building a sustainable rhythm where you start each week feeling more ready than rushed.
Here’s how to create a Self-Care Sunday that actually works for mom life.
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What Is Self-Care Sunday?
Self-Care Sunday is a weekly ritual combining:
Restoration: Activities that refill your cup
Reset: Preparing yourself and your home for the week
Reflection: Reviewing the past week and setting intentions
It’s not about perfection or Instagram-worthy rituals. It’s about consistent, sustainable practices that help you show up better for yourself and your family.
The Self-Care Sunday Framework
Morning: Restoration
Start the day focused on YOU before the demands begin.
Ideas (choose what works):
- Wake before kids for quiet time
- Slow coffee or tea (without rushing)
- Gentle movement or stretching
- Journaling or reflection
- Read something just for pleasure
- Skincare routine you don’t have time for on weekdays
- Prayer or meditation
Key: This isn’t about adding more to your to-do list. It’s about protecting time where you’re not “on” for everyone else.
Midday: Reset
Get practical tasks done so the week starts smoother.
Household reset:
- Meal planning/prep
- Laundry catch-up
- General tidying
- Organizing for the week ahead
- Prepping backpacks, outfits, etc.
Personal reset:
- Review calendar for the week
- Prep work materials if needed
- Plan your own appointments and needs
- Financial review if applicable
Evening: Relaxation
Wind down with intention.
Ideas:
- Family dinner (nothing fancy is fine)
- Early bedtime
- Bath or shower ritual
- Skin care and beauty maintenance
- Watch something cozy
- Light prep for Monday morning
Sample Self-Care Sunday Schedules
For Moms of Babies/Toddlers
Morning (during first nap):
- Slow cup of coffee while baby naps
- Quick skincare routine
- 10 minutes of stretching or movement
- Journal 3 things you’re grateful for
Midday (when you can):
- Partner takes baby for walk → meal prep or rest
- Quick house reset during play time
- Prep baby needs for the week (bottles, diapers stocked, etc.)
Evening (after bedtime):
- Face mask while watching TV
- Prep Monday’s outfit and bag
- Early bed yourself
For Moms of School-Age Kids
Morning (before kids wake or while they self-entertain):
- Wake 30-60 minutes early for quiet time
- Coffee, journal, reading
- Gentle yoga or walk
Midday (involve kids or give them activity):
- Meal prep (kids can help)
- Laundry done while they play
- House reset
- Review family calendar for week
Evening (after kids are in bed):
- Longer self-care ritual (bath, skincare, show)
- Prep for Monday
- Relaxed bedtime routine
For Working Moms
Morning (protected time):
- Wake before family
- Movement, journaling, coffee
- Do NOT check work email
Midday:
- Batch meal prep
- Personal admin (appointments, bills)
- Prep work week (clothes, bag, materials)
- Reset home
Evening:
- Truly offline from work
- Relaxation routine
- Prep for smooth Monday morning
- Earlier bedtime
Related: 5-Minute Self-Care for Busy Moms
Self-Care Sunday Ideas by Category
Physical Self-Care
- Longer shower with nice products
- Face mask or hair mask
- Full skincare routine
- Paint nails
- Stretch or yoga session
- Take a walk outside
- Gentle workout
- Nap (if possible!)
Mental Self-Care
- Journal
- Read for pleasure
- Meditate
- Brain dump all your thoughts
- Put away your phone for an hour
- Do a puzzle or craft
- Learn something new (podcast, article)
Emotional Self-Care
- Talk to a friend
- Therapy (if scheduled)
- Write about how you’re feeling
- Cry if you need to
- Watch something comforting
- Practice self-compassion
- Acknowledge the week’s wins
Social Self-Care
- Call a friend or family member
- Plan a get-together for the coming week
- Connect with your partner
- Quality time with kids (not task time)
Practical Self-Care
- Meal prep
- Organize something that’s bothering you
- Pay bills or review finances
- Schedule appointments
- Clean out your purse or bag
- Review and plan the week
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The Weekly Reset Checklist
Home Reset
- [ ] Laundry caught up
- [ ] Kitchen clean
- [ ] General tidying done
- [ ] Trash taken out
- [ ] Grocery shopping done
Week Prep
- [ ] Meals planned
- [ ] Meals prepped (if desired)
- [ ] Calendar reviewed
- [ ] Outfits considered
- [ ] Bags and backpacks ready
- [ ] Appointments confirmed
Personal Reset
- [ ] Email inbox cleared (or processed)
- [ ] To-do list reviewed
- [ ] Priorities identified for the week
- [ ] Self-care scheduled on calendar
- [ ] Moments of restoration taken
Making It Actually Happen
Start Small
You don’t need a four-hour Sunday ritual. Start with:
- 15 minutes of quiet morning time
- One self-care activity
- Basic week prep
Build from there.
Protect the Time
Put it on the calendar. Communicate with your partner. Trade off so both parents get reset time.
Involve Your Family
Some elements can include kids:
- Family meal prep
- Tidying together
- Family walk or activity
- Kids doing their own version of “reset”
Let Go of Perfection
Some Sundays will be chaotic. The goal is a general rhythm, not a perfect execution every single week.
Make It Yours
Self-care isn’t one-size-fits-all. Adjust the framework to what actually refreshes YOU. Hate baths? Skip them. Love organizing? Do more of it.
Related: Morning Routine for Moms
Self-Care Sunday with Partner
Take Turns
Option 1: One parent gets Sunday morning, other gets Sunday afternoon
Option 2: Alternate Sundays for extended solo time
Option 3: Both parents get 1-2 hours while grandparent or sitter helps
Communicate Needs
Tell your partner specifically what you need:
- “I need two hours alone in the bedroom”
- “I want to go for a walk by myself”
- “Can you handle the kids while I meal prep in peace?”
Support Each Other’s Reset
Both parents benefit from intentional reset time. Make it a priority for both of you.
FAQ
I have no time on Sundays. How can I do this?
Start with 15 minutes. Wake before kids, or take it during nap time, or trade with partner for a short window. Something is better than nothing.
My Sundays are full of family activities. Can I still do this?
Adapt the framework. Maybe your self-care happens Saturday evening, or Sunday morning before activities. Build in small moments around existing commitments.
What if my partner doesn’t support this?
Have a direct conversation about needing reset time. Explain the benefits for the whole family when you’re recharged. Offer to facilitate their reset time too.
Is it selfish to take time for myself on family day?
No. Taking care of yourself makes you a better parent and partner. You can have family time AND personal time on the same day. They’re not mutually exclusive.
What if I can’t afford spa stuff and fancy self-care?
Self-care doesn’t require spending money. A walk outside, journaling, stretching, a quiet cup of tea, or simply sitting in silence are all free.
Conclusion
Self-Care Sunday isn’t about elaborate rituals or Instagram perfection. It’s about building a weekly rhythm where you intentionally restore, reset, and prepare—so you start each week feeling human instead of already depleted.
Start small. Protect the time. Adapt it to your actual life. Over time, Sunday becomes less about dreading Monday and more about caring for yourself in ways that ripple through the whole week.
You deserve a weekly reset. So does your family. A regulated, rested mom benefits everyone.
Happy Sunday, mama.
